Beware of the ‘Processing Trap’ in your Relationship

“Are we really having THIS conversation again?” “How many times to I have to say this?” “It’s like you don’t hear me. What’s the use in telling you again.” “You sound like a broken record. I get it ok!” Sound familiar? These statements mixed with a certain tone, gesture, look, or other action can send […]

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Are you and your partner on the same page?

Do you find yourself out of sync with your partner or is there an easy flow to your relationship? Can you talk about the things that are most important to you freely or do you hold back? What are the foundational values of your relationship? Have you thought about it, and talked about it? 8 […]

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Conscious Couples Thrive-ival Guide to Burning Man

The conditions at Burning Man make survival the number one priority for many people. Some just show up last minute with their best neon hot pants not really understanding what they are going to, and other folks spend weeks or even months building temporary homes and art cars, planning camp set ups and offerings to […]

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The Cooperation of the Sexes

In the ‘battle of the sexes’ love becomes a competition and the death of true partnership. In the age of alternative relationships, independent women and sensitive men, we are moving into a place where it’s ok to have our own unique balance of masculine and feminine energy and style of relating.  More people are becoming aware […]

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4 Cornerstones for a Solid Relationship

It’s easy to fantasize about your relationship to be amazing but we all know making it that way takes effort.  Some say it’s hard.  I say having a shitty relationship takes just as much effort.  What makes the best relationship ever is the every day interactions that might not seem to matter.  The little glances and comments […]

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The Victim Triangle and your Relationship

Taking responsibility for our lives and our relationships can be uncomfortable.  Playing the victim is a way to cop out and put the blame elsewhere, but it leaves us feeling powerless to do anything.  If we are a victim we don’t have to feel bad that we have made the choices that led us here and we […]

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Finding Lasting Love in a Karmic Shit-storm

If you keep attracting the ‘wrong’ people you may be wading through karmic teacher relationships, which can feel like finding all the wrong ones, but really you are attracting the exact person who carries the lesson you need to learn.  Their primary purpose is to reflect the blind spots that are keeping you from being whole, complete […]

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Merging Love & Desire

  For some of us desire is easier.  For some of us love is easier.  You can have a happy relationship with only one, but rest assured the other is being met elsewhere, even if only in ones imagination.  When we can allow both to exist at the same time for the same person, we […]

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